Learning body language is one of the most important skills when it comes to influencing people. Without good Body Language you can not Influence people
Take a closer look at the most popular main characters in TV Shows (Tommy Shelby, James Bond, Patrick Bateman etc.) All of them have Influence with Body Language.
Having a good body language makes you
- Confident
- Attractiveness
- Seriousness
- Leadership in groups
Speaking with your Hands
Using your hand gestures while speaking helps your listener to easily understand and remember.
Peter F. Drucker
Speaking with your hands builds a speaker’s confidence and leadership look.
It’s important to note that using hand gestures should be natural and not overused, as excessive gestures can be distracting to the listener and may indicate nervousness or lack of confidence.
Eye Contact
Eye contact is the most important thing when it comes to Influence in Body Language.
It probably happened to you that you were communicating with a person whom you listened carefully, but you were asked a question in the middle of the topic “Why aren’t you listening to me”. This happened to you because you did not make an Eye Contact to a person.
Open posture
Having open posture builds several benefits looks:
- Confidence look: An open posture makes you look more confident and assertiveness. Making a person more credible and trustworthy.
- Trust look: Speaking with an Open Posture between communication with a person confirms that the person is honest and agreeable.
Having Open Posture not only contributes to a good appearance, but it has many health benefits, including:
- Encourages proper alignment of joints and bones.
- Promotes effective and efficient use of the muscles of your body.
- Reduces abnormal wear and tear on joint surfaces.
- Decreases stress on the ligaments of your spine.
- Prevents abnormal positioning of your spine.
- Prevents muscle fatigue.
- Decreases the risk of strain and sprain injuries.
- Decreases the risk of back pain.
Facial Expression
Facial Expression is an important aspect of Influencing With Body Language.
Having the same Facial Expression while you are listening boosts communication and builds you as a trustworthy person. Having a serious Facial Expression with Good Posture, Eye Contact and Hand gestures build your look more confident and attractive.
